Author: Keeley Teemsma

As Autism Awareness Month draws to a close, it’s a fitting time to reflect on the progress made and the work that still lies ahead. Throughout April, individuals and organizations around the world have come together to raise awareness about autism spectrum disorder (ASD), advocating for acceptance, understanding, and inclusion. While awareness is crucial, it’s only the first step on the journey towards creating a more supportive and inclusive society for autistic individuals.

Over the years, there has been a significant increase in awareness surrounding autism. More people than ever before recognize the term “autism” and have a basic understanding of what it entails. This increased awareness has led to improved diagnosis rates and access to services for individuals on the spectrum. It has also sparked important conversations about neurodiversity and the unique strengths and challenges of autistic individuals.

However, awareness alone is not enough. We must move beyond awareness to foster genuine understanding and acceptance of autism. Understanding goes beyond recognizing the existence of autism; it involves learning about the diverse experiences of autistic individuals, their strengths, challenges, and perspectives. It requires us to listen to autistic voices and amplify their stories, allowing their insights to shape our perceptions and actions.

Acceptance is perhaps the most crucial aspect of creating an inclusive society for autistic individuals. Acceptance means embracing neurodiversity and recognizing that autism is a natural variation of the human experience, not a defect to be corrected or cured. It means respecting the autonomy and dignity of autistic individuals and valuing their contributions to our communities. Acceptance is about creating environments where autistic individuals can thrive and be their authentic selves without fear of judgment or discrimination.

As we reflect on Autism Awareness Month, let us recommit ourselves to the pursuit of understanding and acceptance. This means advocating for policies and practices that promote inclusivity and support for autistic individuals in education, employment, healthcare, and beyond. It means challenging stereotypes and combating stigma through education and advocacy efforts. It means creating spaces where autistic voices are heard, valued, and included in decision-making processes.

Building a more inclusive society for autistic individuals benefits us all. When we embrace neurodiversity and create environments where everyone can thrive, we unlock the full potential of our communities. We learn from each other, grow together, and create a world that celebrates diversity in all its forms.

So, as Autism Awareness Month comes to a close, let us carry the spirit of understanding and acceptance forward into the months and years ahead. Let us continue to work towards a world where every individual, regardless of their neurotype, is valued, respected, and included. Together, we can create a more compassionate and inclusive future for all.

In our journey through life, our mental health is influenced by a myriad of factors, with hormones playing a pivotal role, especially in women’s health. From the joys of pregnancy to the challenges of menopause, hormonal fluctuations can significantly impact mental well-being. In this blog post, we delve into how hormonal conditions like postpartum depression, pregnancy, Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD), and menopause can affect mental health and explore how psychotherapy can offer support and guidance through these complex times.

The Ripple Effect of Hormonal Changes

Pregnancy: Pregnancy is a time of profound hormonal changes designed to support fetal development and prepare the body for childbirth. However, these hormonal shifts can also affect mood and emotional well-being. While many expectant mothers experience the “glow” of pregnancy, others may struggle with anxiety, depression, or antenatal depression, which can impact their ability to bond with the unborn baby and prepare for the challenges of motherhood.

Postpartum Period: Following childbirth, the sudden drop in hormones like estrogen and progesterone, along with sleep deprivation and the pressures of caring for a newborn, can lead to postpartum depression (PPD). PPD goes beyond the “baby blues,” presenting a more severe and long-lasting form of depression that requires professional support.

Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD): PMDD is a severe form of premenstrual syndrome (PMS) that affects a small percentage of menstruating women. Characterized by debilitating physical and emotional symptoms, PMDD can significantly disrupt daily life and strain personal relationships.

Menopause: The transition to menopause involves a gradual decrease in hormone production, particularly estrogen and progesterone. This period can bring about a range of symptoms, including hot flashes, sleep disturbances, and mood swings, which can contribute to anxiety and depression in some women.

The Role of Psychotherapy

Understanding the interplay between hormones and mental health is crucial in providing effective care. Psychotherapy offers a supportive space to navigate these challenges, employing various strategies tailored to each individual’s needs.

Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is effective in addressing negative thought patterns and behaviors associated with hormonal changes. It can help individuals develop coping strategies to manage symptoms of anxiety and depression, improving overall well-being.

Interpersonal Therapy (IPT): IPT focuses on the interpersonal relationships and social roles that may be affected by hormonal changes. It can be particularly helpful in addressing issues related to the postpartum period and menopause, offering strategies to improve communication and strengthen relationships.

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR): MBSR techniques can be beneficial in managing the emotional and physical symptoms associated with hormonal conditions. Mindfulness practices encourage present-moment awareness and acceptance, helping to alleviate stress and improve mood.

Lifestyle and Nutritional Counseling: Integrating lifestyle and nutritional counseling into psychotherapy can enhance treatment outcomes. Regular physical activity, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep can mitigate the impact of hormonal fluctuations on mental health.

Conclusion

Hormonal conditions can profoundly affect mental health, but with the right support and strategies, individuals can navigate these changes more smoothly. At our psychotherapy practice, we are committed to providing compassionate and evidence-based care to help our clients manage the psychological aspects of hormonal conditions. By understanding the complex relationship between hormones and mental health, we empower individuals to take control of their well-being and lead fulfilling lives.

Written By: Kat Heidelberger, LMSW

In the bustling heart of New York City, where the pace of life never seems to slow down, it’s easy to lose touch with the creative spark that ignites joy and vitality in our lives. However, creativity isn’t just an artistic endeavor; it’s a vital component of mental health. Here are some ways that nurturing creativity can enhance overall well-being.

Rediscovering Your Inner Child Through Creativity:

Creativity is often associated with childhood — a time when we freely expressed ourselves without fear of judgment or failure. As adults, especially in a goal-driven city like NYC, we tend to suppress this creative freedom, but it remains a core part of our being.

Engaging in creative activities allows us to revisit the uninhibited joy of our inner child. This might be through painting, writing, dancing, or even cooking. It’s not about the outcome but the process — allowing yourself to play, explore, and make ‘mistakes’ without self-criticism. This reconnection with your inner child can be incredibly healing, offering a sense of freedom and spontaneity that adult life often lacks.

The Therapeutic Power of Being in Flow:

Flow states, a concept popularized by psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, occur when you’re fully immersed in an activity, losing track of time and self-consciousness. This state of ‘flow’ or ‘being in the zone’ is not only deeply satisfying but also contributes to mental well-being. 

Creative activities are a perfect gateway to these flow states. Whether it’s through writing a piece of music, getting lost in a drawing, or crafting, these activities can shift your focus away from stressors and negative thoughts, providing a mental break that’s both refreshing and rejuvenating. In flow, the mind gets a chance to rest from the constant chatter of life. It allows for a unique form of mindfulness, where the present moment is all that matters. The result is often a sense of peace, accomplishment, and a deeper connection to self.

Expressing the Inexpressible: 

Another crucial aspect of creativity in mental health is its role in emotional expression and healing. Creative expression offers a unique outlet for hidden underlying emotions, providing a way to articulate and process them when words alone may fall short.

Many times, emotions are complex and layered, making them difficult to verbalize. Creative pursuits enable you to express these feelings in a more abstract yet profoundly personal way. This process can lead to significant insights and catharsis, aiding in emotional release and healing.

Fostering Self- Understanding:

Engaging in creative activities can also be a journey of self-discovery. As you create, you might uncover hidden aspects of yourself, understand your desires and fears better, and cultivate a deeper connection with yourself. This self-discovery can be empowering, leading to greater self-acceptance and a more authentic life.

Creativity in Everyday Life:

You don’t need to be an artist to incorporate creativity into your life. It’s about finding what resonates with you. Simple acts like rearranging your living space, experimenting with new recipes, or journaling can spark creativity. The key is to approach these activities with a sense of curiosity and playfulness.

We are all inherently creative. By embracing these elements, not only do we improve our mental health, but we also enrich our lives with color, passion, and vitality. Let’s start this creative journey together, and rediscover the joy of living in the moment, one brushstroke, word, or dance move at a time.

Written by Kat Heidelberger, LMSW

It is common to experience work-related anxiety when there is so much pressure to perform at a high level while managing the responsibilities and dynamics that exist in professional contexts. While we may already experience stress related to the nature of our jobs, the sources of anxiety at work can be attributed to factors like job security, fear of failure, social hierarchies or environment, and vary across professions.

Anxiety also often spikes when it is time to bring up professional development conversations. This can look like asking for a raise or resigning from your current position. Thankfully, there are ways to feel less anxious when approaching these challenging but necessary exchanges. Here are some places to start:

Evaluate Your Reasons

Reflect on your reasons for having this conversation. How would it support your values and goals on a professional and personal level? Understanding your motivations can help you feel more confident in your choice and express yourself clearly at the time of the discussion.

Prepare Thoroughly & Rehearse

Is there any valuable information you could gather, such as details about the industry standards and the salary structure within your organization to support your points? Who are the right people to approach with your request?  Make sure to do your research ahead of time, document important points, and consult with trusted colleagues and mentors prior to the conversation. Practicing ahead of time can also significantly lower your anxiety around the flow of the conversation and its possible outcome. Write a script and practice it with a trusted friend or family member who can offer you feedback and encouragement.

Choose the Right Time

Make sure to request a private and scheduled meeting with your supervisor or HR professional. This way, you will ensure it receives the attention it deserves. If the conversation is related to a career advancement request or additional opportunities, choosing a time when your performance has been strong may also help.

Be Flexible and Open to Discussion

Approach the subject with flexibility and be prepared for negotiation. Understand that your employer may not be able to meet your initial request, so be open to hearing about other beneficial options or future considerations. Thinking of a backup plan can also lower the pressure and expectations related to the conversation at hand.

Focus on Positive Self-talk

Challenge and reframe negative thoughts by replacing them with positive affirmations or statements. Be kind to yourself and acknowledge your achievements and strengths as an employee. Remind yourself that you are worthy of having your needs met in order to maintain personal and professional fulfillment, and communicate from a place of self-compassion and confidence.

Stay Calm

Practice deep breathing and mindfulness techniques before the meeting to manage anxiety. Meditation, breathwork, writing a gratitude list, journaling, or a quick walk on a lunch break will allow you to feel more grounded and balanced.

Seek Professional Support

Consider speaking with a mental health professional as a highly effective way to manage work-related anxiety, especially when you feel nervous about navigating difficult conversations with your employer. A collaborative therapeutic process will provide you with guidance, support, and strategies for building confidence and effective communication. 

Whatever the professional development conversation you are approaching, you got this!

Written by Natallia Khalpukova, MHC Fellow